Category Archives: Life Stories

Sleep Deprivation and Control

Still getting a handle on things.  Training was going pretty well, I was getting used to the early AM training and building some consistency.

Then comes daylight savings time, which is probably the best example of a pointless government intrusion in to your life.

Whatever, it’s still an excuse.  So my sleep got screwed up, and my routine got a little jumbled due to trying to do some fun stuff (a wine tasting and the Baltimore Foodies event at the Hippodrome).

I need to keep after the sleep schedule thing; I know from past experience that if I can build that 4:15 wake time habit, my sleep needs will diminish, making everything easier to handle.

I also just need to man up and stick with training in the AM.  I also need to balance some things to make sure I’m really doing things that add value to my life.  So with the AM training, I’m also working on spending more time cooking and drinking wine with my wife, and a little less time worrying about political news, blogging, and other extra stuff.

Once I get everything really settled (probably a month or so), I think I’ll be able to get more done.


How To: Stop a Bully

Patrick at Popehat (which you should regularly read) links to a widespread video from Australia showing a bully getting what he’s got coming.

I didn’t know there was an uproar, and frankly don’t care much.  I’ve said for years, as Patrick points out, there’s a solution to bullying.

There’s always a big brother, a bigger friend, or a Dad out there.  Eventually, the bully will run in to them.  Problem solved.  Some people, in many instances bullies, respond only to violence, and some well placed violence is the only solution.  I think in most cases, just the idea that there’s someone out there who will stand up to you can stop a bully.

I know from experience:  standing up to the bully works.  I didn’t ever have to kick the shit out of someone (I doubt I actually would have been able to take on the kid who bullied me in high school), but just standing up to the lout ended the behavior.  He didn’t know if I really thought I could kick his ass, but I made him think I could, or that I might at least try.

(Also, a big shout out to Facebook.  The kid who bullied me in school turned out to be a douchebag attention craving loser as an adult.  I wouldn’t have the satisfaction of knowing that without Facebook.)

Successfully standing up for yourself can be a valuable life lesson, too.


Still Gaining Control

Not quite there yet.  I’m amazed that I’ve had absolutely no time to write anything or train, but it’s so.  Was also sick this week, which kept me from getting back to training.

Next week I’m driving around to all of the distribution centers in my market unit to meet with all my folks.  More very early starts, more long days, so I think it’s realistic to plan to get back to training next weekend.

Work/Life balance certainly has tipped way too far to the Work side, but I am enjoying the work, so that’s a good thing.


I’m really busy, and don’t have much to say

So I’m not blogging much.  Starting to get in to the swing of the new job, but I still don’t have little things, like an office or phone, so it’s still a little disorganized and frustrating.

It’s overwhelming, though.  Lots of hours, lots to learn; it’s really been consuming all my time and energy.  I just caught up on WLTV, and had two weeks of episodes to watch.

Gonna try to get to the gym Tuesday morning.  I really need to get my life in order if work isn’t going to be.

Not much to say about current events.  I didn’t watch the SOTU, as it’s become a pointless speech; I got sick of listening to people discuss banning firearms and speech because a congresswoman got shot by a lunatic, and I don’t quite have the time to try to figure out what’s going on in Egypt.

I don’t even have time to fund my HSA or look at my Scottrade account.  I should probably be shopping for an accountant, because there’s no way I’ll have the time or energy for taxes.

Anyway, I do still occasionally drink and blog about wine, and have an idea for a good article at Bleacher Report… maybe this week.  Maybe not.


Overwhelmed

Trying to get back in the swing of things, I’m a bit overwhelmed by the new gig to be honest. 

Off site meetings in Philly for two days, then on the road on Friday.  That on top of an awful lot of information, a pretty big cultural change, and lots to do will certainly force me to focus on work for the time being.

That said, I gotta get right with my body.  Started to get back to eating a little better (you know, like eating vegetables sometimes).  I actually have only had two beers since we left Napa (both on Wednesday evening at dinner with the group in Philly).  I have to get back on track with training if I want to finally meet some of my goals. 

I’ve got a pretty nasty cold – hopefully I’ll kick it this weekend… training starts in earnest Monday, sick or not.

Today and tomorrow are rest and football.

Regular blogging should pick up as I can fit it in, certainly training updates will be forthcoming.


Napa, Part II

My wife and I were in Napa for a few days last week.  Here’s the link to Part I.

On Tuesday, we only visited two wineries, as the whirlwind of the trip to San Francisco, the wedding and associated festivities, and all the wine drinking were wearing us out.

First, we had the best tour of the trip at Hall in Rutherford.  Another private tasting and tour, showcasing the unique vision of the owners of the winery, as well as some fantastic wine.  We tasted the 09 Napa Valley Sauvignon Blanc ($22, 3/5), the 07 Cabernet Sauvignon ($44, 4/5), the 07 “Katherine Hall” Cabernet Sauvignon ($80, 5/5), the T Bar T Cabernet Sauvignon ($45, 3/5), and as a special treat, the 06 Darwin Red Blend (Cab, Syrah) ($40, 4/5).  (The Darwin wine comes with a great story). 

The Hall Rutherford winery is stunning.  There are incredible views in their reception area, and the construction of their caves from Austrian bricks is amazing.  The entire winery is home to unique modern (and in some cases, priceless) art, kept in the working areas to remind the folks making wine that they too are artists. 

Our final winery visit was to Corison.  Another private tasting and quick tour of the small facility, some more outstanding wines.  We had the 07 Corazon Gewürztraminer ($30, 4/5), the 07 Cabernet Rose ($24, 3/5), the 07 Cabernet Sauvignon ($70, 3/5), and the 06 Kronos Cabernet ($98, 4/5).  Because these wines are not widely distributed, I asked to buy the Kronos, and our tasting guide suggested the 05 as it should be a better vintage and drinking better now.    I’m looking forward to it.

Now that we’re back, we are already planning our next trip out.  We loved the hotel, so we will probably stay there again.  We’d like to rent a mini van or SUV and convince some friends to come along for a 5 day trip, 3 days of as many private tastings/tours as we can schedule, a day in Calistoga, and a free day.  We need to get to the French Laundry, too.

I’m also trying to figure out how we can move there.

One disclosure:  As Lexus owners, our tastings at Hall and Corison were comped as part of an affinity program.  I at no time identified myself as a wine blogger or that any review would be published, the wonderful treatment we got at each winery was evidence only of the wineries’ committment to customer service (and selling wine, of course).


Napa, Part I

My wife and I were in San Francisco for the New Year (at a wedding), and popped over to Napa for a few days before flying home.

We stayed in the outstanding AVIA hotel in downtown Napa.  Given the short stay, we only got to visit a few wineries, but had a great time and a couple of great meals.

We arrived the evening of the second, and after checking in, drove to Bouchon in Yountville.  Outstanding.  Charcuterie, salads, quiche, and steak frites, all very good.  We also liked the wine program, and had an absolutely fantastic half carafe of Pinot from the Central Coast of California.

On Monday the third, we headed out to the one winery that was a ‘must’, Silver Oak.  On our last trip to Napa, other folks travelling with our group insisted we go, and we loved the wine.  We tasted the 06 Alexander Valley ($70, 4/5), the 05 Napa Valley ($100, 4/5), and the 03 Napa Valley ($110, 5/5).  While the wine was great, the people are even better.  Upon explaining when we were there last (they were building their new facility, so the tasting room was in a trailer), they gave us an impromptu tour. 

Next up was Judds Hill for a private tasting.  Judds Hill makes some great wine, but they also will work with you to make a custom wine with your label.  We tasted 5 of their wines.  The 2009 Sauvignon Blanc ($22, 4/5), 2009 Rose (3/5), 2008 Estate Pinot Noir ($34, 3/5), 2009 BBQ Zinfandel ($30, 3/5), the 2007 Petit Sirah ($30, 3/5), and the 2006 Cabernet ($45, 3/5).  All of these were good, and most are only available at the winery.  We purchased a few bottles of the Sauvignon Blanc.

We visited Charles Krug as well.  We met their director of marketing in the San Diego airport, and she gave us her card and got us a comped tasting (which shows it pays off to be friendly to strangers in airports).  We did the standard tasting, but again, making friends with the folks working at the winery might get you a couple of pours off the reserve tasting list as well.  We tasted the 09 Sauvignon Blanc Napa Valley ($18, 3/5), the 08 Chardonnay from Carneros ($20, 3/5), the 07 Pinot Noir Carnaros/Napa ($25, 3/5), the 07 Zin from St Helena ($25, 4/5), the 07 Napa Merlot ($24, 4/5), and the 2008 Napa Cabernet Sauvignon ($27, 4/5).  Since all of these are nationally distributed, no need to weigh down our luggage trying to get it home. 

Finally on Monday we went to PEJU.  This was the only winery to offer a way to ship us wine (as Maryland residents, we are unable to receive direct shipments, but there are some ways around the laws… at least we’ll try them).  We tasted the 09 Chardonnay ($28, 3/5), the Provence, a non vintage red and white blend that was interesting ($22, 3/5), the 06 Merlot ($35, 3/5), and the 06 Cabernet Sauvignon ($45, 2/5); The tasting was entertaining, lead by Alan, the “yodelmeister.  We joined the mailing list/wine club, and got a couple of quick tastes of some of their reserve wines (the ones we’ll get), and they were very good.

For dinner, we went to Morimoto.  Frankly, after such a long day of tasting wine this was a bit overindulgent.  We both went with Omakase, and each course was fantastic.  Be warned, there is a celebrity chef price premium here.  It was worth it to go, but I don’t know that I’ll go back given all the choices in Napa for outstanding food.  (I much prefer the French Bistro vibe of Bouchon over the raucous club feel of Morimoto as well).    Of note was the beer I had with dinner, Morimoto Imperial Pilsner, made by Rogue.  Absolutely fantastic.

One disclosure:  As Lexus owners, our tastings at Judd and PEJU were comped as part of an affinity program.  I at no time identified myself as a wine blogger or that any review would be published, the wonderful treatment we got at each winery was evidence only of the wineries’ committment to customer service (and selling wine, of course).


New Year!

Back from a New Years Eve wedding San Francisco and a quick side trip to Napa.  Refreshed, and getting back in the swing of things in the next few days.

Should have some posts up about the wine part of the trip on The Grand Crew in the next few days, and some year end posts here as well.


Ready

Are you ready for 2011? 

I am.

New Job

During my company’s recent reorganization, I was promoted(?) to a new role.  I now manage service operations for the Maryland and Northern VA market, 7 direct reports and about 100 total reports.  It’s going to be a pretty big change for me, as it’s been ten years since I managed people.  It’s also going to be a different pace.  In my old role, I could pretty much manage how quickly things had to get done, it was more strategic.  The new role, because of the scope and responsibility will require quick decisions.  I think I’ll like it, and I’m looking forward to having a great year.

I will have to adjust to being more available and more visible during normal business hours, so there will be less working from home and less flexibility in my schedule.  It was bound to happen.

Training

My foot is pretty much healed, I can walk normally and can run if I must.  I’m going to be out of town for a bit, so I’ll be back to training after the new year – probably the weekend of the eighth.  I think because of the new role at work, I will change my schedule around and train early in the morning two weekdays and train in the morning of both weekend days.  I’ve tried that in the past and it didn’t work out, but I want to give it another go before I go back to training in the evenings. 

I’m not happy about having missed so much time again, but that’s how it goes.  I’m mentally prepared to get back after it, and I’ll post something soon about my plan to get my fitness back and start making progress again. 

Wine

Heading to Napa.  Can’t wait!

Writing

I committed to writing a lot this year, and may have over extended myself given my new role.  I’m going to try to keep up with my blog, as well as The Grand Crew and Bleacher Report.  But there may be longer gaps in posts as I figure out how to balance things and what my priority will be.

I hope everyone has a safe and healthy start to the new year!


Staying Quiet and Recovering

Short break in posts due to not having much to say, and being on the road Monday and Tuesday of this week. 

Toes are healing.  I’m pretty close to being able to get back in the gym, I think.  I still limp, but it’s mostly because I changed my gait to walk when they hurt, and now my foot hurts when I walk normally.  Probably shouldn’t put weight on my foot yet, though.  I’m not sure when I’ll get back in the gym, maybe get in this weekend.  (I’ll be out of town at the end of December for a week, I’m not sure getting in a couple of weeks of training to just take off is worth the bother given my hurt toes and work stuff, but we’ll see.)

Work is a bit overwhelming.  We’ve just reorganized, I’ve got a new job (but still have to do my old one), and there’s a lot of uncertainty about who does what and how some things get done.  It was expected to a certain extent, just need to be a strong leader and deal with the extra workload.  As anyone who regularly reads this blog, that will probably mean posting will slow down.

The new job will remove some of my flexibility to write, so I still need to figure out how I’m going to keep this thing up.  Obviously I will still post my training log, but I don’t know if other posts will all be done at once and scheduled, or if I will be able to put aside the time to post every day or so. 

On politics – President Obama looks completely lost.  He’s in big, big trouble politically, and we’re in big, big trouble if something happens that requires strong leadership.  He’s making George W. Bush look like a better President every day.


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